Impromptu dates with your significant other not only help to keep your relationship exciting but also serve as an important time to spend some time connecting without the kiddos in tow. We’re excited to share today’s post, and to welcome, the newest member of our iFamilyKC Mom Squad team, Gabrielle. Today’s post is one that is near and dear to her own heart. Take a look…
The Importance Of Impromptu Dates With Your Significant Other
A few years back, my husband and I decided to play hooky from work. We dropped the kids off at school and then met for breakfast. After breakfast, we went to the mall, hung out at our favorite book store, and did a little window shopping. We saw a movie, then we grabbed some lunch and hung out for a bit until it was time to pick up the kids from school. We had such a great time that we decided to do it monthly. Now I know many couples have standing monthly date nights. They hire a baby-sitter for the night, or send the kids off to grandma’s house for the weekend. I absolutely support this, but I strongly recommend trying a date day at least once. The benefits are amazing.
First, we save money. There’s no need to hire a baby-sitter. Also, the meals are much cheaper during the day. My husband and I can eat both breakfast and lunch for the same amount of money that we would spend on a dinner date. Lunch dates are a great way to experience fancy cuisine in smaller portions and at a cheaper prices. Check your favorite spot to see if there is a lunch menu. Want to see a movie, instead? The theaters are empty and most offer matinee pricing.
Second, we save time. My husband and I once attempted an impromptu dinner date on the weekend. We found ourselves wandering up and down 119th street looking for any place that didn’t have an hour and a half wait for dinner. We were so hungry, we wound up at a chain restaurant eating tacos. On date days, the longest we’ve ever had to wait was a couple minutes for a server to actually notice there was a customer who walked in the door. Not only that, but a six-hour marathon date provides enough adult conversation, that you don’t go crazy when you return home to non-stop Disney channel reruns. We don’t have to try and get everything in between the appetizers and dessert. We have all day.
Finally, it’s like a micro-vacation. Who does not need a day off in the middle of the week? When is the last time you spent eight hours alone with your significant other? Our date days allow us time to slow down and just enjoy time with each other. We can go to the amusement park and not be stuck in the kids section, riding the same tiny roller coaster multiple times. We can go gaze at million dollar homes and dream together.
Date days have become a priority in our household. We tell every couple we know to at least give it a try. The only people we haven’t told are the kids… and grandma (because she’s our daycare provider and we do not want to ruin our good thing!)
From iFamily to Yours,