Good morning, Kansas City! As we say goodbye to 2016, many of us are looking forward with goals for the new year. Our Mom Squad Ambassador, Brigette, has some great strategies to set your 2017 year up for success. Check it out (and have a great and SAFE New Year!)
5 Quick and Easy Strategies to Help Your New Year’s Goals
It’s no surprise that when the New Year rolls around, everyone will have their resolutions underway, or they are setting their goals in place. But one thing about the New Year is for sure. How you start it will set a tone for the remainder of the year!
When I start thinking of the upcoming year, I like to think about all the things that went wrong, went right or I didn’t get to do! In case you don’t know me, lists are like my little mind saving, stress reliving life saver! I make lists for just about everything, so why not for the upcoming year?!
#1 Find a Calendar
When I start planning, the first thing I do is find a super cute calendar! In my mind, if it’s pretty it will keep your attention lol. I find a cute calendar that I can place in my “mommy binder” (how I keep my #momlife in order), and I fill it with our set in stone dates i.e. birthdays, Holy Days, anniversary and so on. Knowing the dates and seeing those written keeps me from double booking our days and allows me to work other schedules around them!
#2 Set Goals for Yourself
Second, I set my goals for ME. I set my weight loss goals by dates, my blogging and promoting times and anything else that I need to take care of that are for me, (hair, threading, girls night etc). Once I have those dates marked down, it gives me some peace of mind knowing that no matter how crazy or hectic my life is, I can plan my “escape” and enjoy a little me time! I’m sure you also get wrapped up in what your families have going on and often forget or neglect time for yourself. I chose to put my dates second because I know that they are needed and if I put them in last or after my family’s dates, my calendar will fill up without me!
#3 Add plans from the other people in your family/life
Third, I add everything dealing with my kids and husband. We home school so most of what I plan for them are school dates, field trips and fun days to kind of get them out of their routine and have a little extra “school free” time. I also add in appointments for the Dr. Office, dentist and I make little notes to ask for referrals for specialists so I won’t forget!
#4 Reflect on areas of improvement from the past year
Fourth, I think about all the things that went wrong during the year, my short comings or things that I need to get better at. Once I know what those are, I hit up Pinterest for a little motivation. Pinterest has great motivational articles, pictures and tips.. so go crazy! I have two boards specifically for motivating me as a mom and wife and they truly have helped me more than I would have thought.
#5 Set the Tone
Fifth, I set the tone! I tell myself that the upcoming year will be great! I remind myself of all the things that I want to accomplish in my home or in my business and I burn it into my brain! My husband and I sit literally for an hour or so and talk about how things are going to get better or change for us in the New Year. The more I talk about the things I want to change or accomplish the easier they become to achieve them!
I hope you had a great year and I hope your 2017 is even better!
Christmas Eve is upon us here in the metro area and, if you’re anything like me, you’re probably frantically getting in those last minute errands that you’ve been putting off forgotten about, baking holiday treats, and cleaning the house in anticipation of loved ones later this evening (or in my case, first thing tomorrow morning). It’s okay, we can all be superheroes from time to time, right?! Don’t stress out, it’s all going to be fine…right? RIGHT? Thankfully, our very own iFamilyKC Mom Squad team member Leah shares her 25 tips for managing holiday stress with us right here on the blog. Take a look…
25 Tips For Managing Holiday Stress
If you are anything like me you are guilty of trying to do a thousand things at once. I find myself being pulled between trying to locate the “perfect gift”, attempting to stay on budget, pull money out of thin air, working more hours to afford “the perfect gift”, ordering things online, and trying to create time to wrap gifts all while trying to balance my daily tasks. Needless to say this momma is wore out.
The holidays tend to add so much stress and chaos to our already over packed lives. Yet, their intention is to the opposite. This year I am determined to approach things differently. I don’t want my son to judge holidays based around how well I may or may not handle stress. We all know that kids see everything even when we think otherwise. I want to make sure he sees me handle things with grace. After all I cannot expect him to if I don’t.
It really is my goal to learn how to master stress so it does not master me. I know that I will not be able to completely avoid stress. However, that doesn’t mean that I cannot try to handle it better when it arrives. I have found some pretty simple ways to help make your holidays a little less hectic. I hope that you can find one or two them useful.
#1 Take an Epson Salt bath – for an added stress relief add essential oils
#2 Create a daily gratitude journal- use this to remind yourself what you are grateful for in yourself and others
#3 Go outside for a walk or run- being around the sunlight can improve your mood
#4 Instead of stressing out over dinner give yourself permission to order out
#5 Turn on some good music
#6 Have a glass of wine
#7 Have a cup of tea- there are so many teas out there to help you relax
#8 Give your partner a massage then have them return the favor ( or just book an appointment at a salon)
#9 Go get your hair done… I always feel better after a good hair cut
#10 Set a budget and stick with it
#11 Schedule a lunch date with a friend and share a good laugh
#12 Turn off your phone so you can get stuff done without being distracted
#13 Try to give out “group gifts” when you have to buy for a family. This will help you stay on budget. You can buy them a movie, popcorn, snacks, etc. Plus this encourages them to do something as a family.
#14 Pace yourself- you do not have to do everything in one day. I find it useful to break my to do list down to a daily list instead. This also helps me feel less overwhelmed.
#15 Take a break and go do something fun as family
#16 Go see some Christmas lights and get yourself back into the Christmas spirit
#17 Light some candles around the house
#18 Meditate – this is an amazing stress reliever
#19 Go to the gym
#20 Call a friend or a family member that puts you in a good mood
#21 Get some sleep
#22 Don’t be afraid to ask for help
#23 Don’t sweat the small stuff
#24 Remind yourself that if something does not get done there is always tomorrow
#25 Listen to yourself- only you know your limits
To follow Leah further please go to her page at www.facebook.com/solaceforthesoul
Helllooooo, Kansas City! I don’t know about you all, but I am ALWAYS looking for easy (and cheap) ways to get organized. Our Mom Squad Ambassador, Darcy, has a fantastic calendar that has helped her reign in the chaos of every day life. Check it out!
Organize Your Family Chaos with this
Simple & Cheap Calendar!
Fall is always a time of change. School is back, sports are in full swing, the holidays are on the horizon and wardrobes need to be adjusted. I don’t know about you, but it seems to take me awhile to get used to my family’s new schedule. Having young ones in the house makes it a bit tougher. My kids are too little to read a calendar, and anyway their sense of time isn’t the best. (My littlest says everything, from her latest nap to her last birthday, happened “yesteryear”.)
Around the time I was getting dizzy explaining when gymnastics was (tomorrow’s tomorrow’s tomorrow) our French teacher gifted the girls with a train depicting the days on the week. (Merci, Madame Zoé.) It was large, with each car the size of a sheet of paper, and the kids and I dutifully colored it and hung it on the wall. Staring at it, inspiration hit and I decided it could help me keep the kids (and me) aware of our schedule.
I went online and found free clip art that worked for our activities. We had a girl with a backpack for school days, girls doing gymnastics, an Eiffel Tower for French class and we even found an elderly couple for when grandparents were coming to visit. (Not that you are in any way elderly Mom and Dad!) I also printed of a sun, which symbolized ‘today’.
Every morning my kids move the sun and they can see what they have going on. If they want to know how far away something is, they can count the train cars. It has worked out AMAZINGLY for us. Granted, it only represents a week, but my kids don’t really understand more than that.
The best thing about this is it is FREE and totally customizable. Do a theme, size and activities that work for you. We keep our spare clip art in an envelope and I update the train as needed. Also, now that my eldest is learning to read, we have labeled some things, to help her learn. What do you think? Could this help in your home?
If you are a 90’s baby like me, or even if you just loved the show, chances are you spent a lot of time watching the Pokémon cartoon and movies, trading cards, battling on your Gameboy, or were involved in make believe games with your friends on a quest to be the very best. Chances are high that you now have Pokémon Go downloaded on your phone. Or maybe your children do. I’m here to share helpful information and tips on the game that everyone is talking about. Take a look…
About The Game:
Pokémon Go is a game you can download on Android and IOS. The player is on a quest to “catch ’em all” as they explore the world around them. Pokémon Go requires the player to have the application open and uses GPS and data services. The player walks around his community, explores parks and monuments, and tracks pokémon around them. The player can catch these pokémon. Future updates are rumored to allow trading and battling between other players. As players explore the world around them and gain experience, they will reach higher levels in the game. Once a player is on level 5, they will select a team to join and can battle at the various gyms around them. Players can collect eggs to hatch random pokémon, visit Pokestops to collect helpful items. Pokémon Go is free to download and play, but players have the option to purchase items within the app. The recommended age for this game is 10+.
How To Play:
Once you’ve downloaded the app, you will be prompted to register and select a username. Please take caution in selecting your username. It is important to select a name that does not provide personal information because if you take over a gym, your username will be displayed for any player around the gym to see. You will then be able to customize your character and begin the game. You will begin by catching a starter pokémon. Pokémon will appear at random as you are walking around. You can tap on that pokémon if you’d like to catch it. Once you’ve selected the Pokémon, you will be on a screen that shows you a pokeball. You will hold down the pokeball and flick it in the direction of the Pokémon. It is important to pay attention to the target ring around the Pokémon. Ideally, the ring will be green. This indicates that the Pokémon is easier to catch. Orange rings mean harder and red is the hardest. You will want to flick the Pokéball towards the ring when it is smaller in size. Information about the Pokémon can be found if you tap on it. You can see how strong the Pokémon is by its CP (combat power). The higher the number, the stronger the Pokémon. This means the Pokémon can be a good advantage in the gym once you begin battling. After you have thrown the pokeball, the ball will shake. If the ball shakes three times, you have successfully caught the Pokémon. Sometimes they escape and other times they run away. At higher levels, the Pokémon get stronger and harder to catch. In the backpack icon, you can select items to help you catch them, such as a raspberry. In order to level up, you have to gain experience points. Points are earned by catching pokémon, evolving pokemon, or visiting Pokestops.
As you walk around town, you will find Pokestops. These are indicated on your map. Once you are in range, you can select the pokestop and spin the coin. At the pokestop, you will gather pokeballs and other items, such as eggs or raspberries. You will also gain experience points each time you visit. You can revisit about every 10-15 minutes. Pay attention to your map when you are searching for Pokestops. Pokestops that are surrounded by hearts have a lure attached to it. Lures are used by players to attract pokémon to the area. Any player can take advantage of this if they see a pokestop with a lure. Lures last for 30 minutes. Certain areas attract more players because of the amount of pokestops. Hot areas around town include the Independence Square, Zona Rosa, Nelson Atkins art museum, and the Plaza. These are usually loaded with pokestops and Lures.
Items and Equipment:
There are several items you can collect or buy in the game that serve a useful purpose.
*Incense: attract pokémon to you for 30 minutes.
*Lucky Egg: gives you double XP for 30 minutes.
*Eggs: hatch into potentially rare pokémon after you walk around for a specified distance.
*Egg Incubator: must be used to hatch an egg.
Pokémon are found as you explore the world around you. You will have a map indicating pokémon near by in the right hand corner. Underneath each pokémon are footprints. These indicate the distance away from you. One footprint indicates the closest pokémon. If you haven’t caught, evolved, or hatched the Pokémon to register it in your pokedex (that tracks all your pokémon), a gray silhouette will appear on the map instead of a picture on the map like the ones you have caught. You can tap on the Pokémon to target it. Pokémon are evolved and can be powered up after you have caught them by using stardust and candies. Stardust is collected every time you catch a pokémon. You will have to collect stardust to power up the Pokémon. Candies are collected through catching pokémon and transferring them. These candies are specific to each pokémon. For example, a Charmander can only use Charmander candies to evolve or power up. You will typically earn three candies each time you catch that pokémon. You will earn one candy for transferring it. You want to keep the Pokémon with the highest CP and transfer the duplicates. Your pokémon can even be named!
Once you have reached level 5,you can battle in the gyms. Gyms are found at various locations like pokestops. You will select a team from the following: Team Mystic (blue), Team Valor (red), and team Instinct (yellow.) At rival gyms, you can battle the Pokémon left to defend it in order to capture the gym for your team. You will attack by tapping on the screen. Special attacks can be made after the blue bar is completely filled. You will simply hold one finger down on the screen. You can also dodge attacks by swiping left or right. If you capture the gym for your team, it will turn to the color of your team and you will leave a pokémon there to defend it. At friendly gyms, you will train your pokémon and gain prestige for your team’s gym. This will level up the gym to make it harder to take over.
Tips and Tricks :
*Watch for rustling leaves on the screen. This indicates a pokémon near by.
*Pokestops that are more popular, such as the Independence square, will benefit you more.
*Collect pokémon in their “natural” environment. For example, water pokémon will be found near lakes or rivers. Electric pokémon can be found near transformers or gas stations. Ghost pokémon can be found near graveyards. Always remember to be respectful of the areas you are in. Please pick up after yourself and don’t wander into someone’s backyard without permission.
*Try drawing a circle around the pokeball before you throw it in order to have a curveball.
*Join the same team as your friends to help each other secure gyms.
*Utilize the power saving tool in the settings. Your battery will drain quickly if you use the game frequently. It might be wise to invest in a portable charger if you plan on playing for long periods of time.
*Don’t play and drive. Be aware of your surroundings. Eggs won’t hatch at high speeds and it is incredibly dangerous. Rumors in different areas indicate that some users are being placed on a soft ban for a few hours if they are traveling too fast.
*Always remember to be safe, cautious, and have fun! And please… Try not to get too mad when the servers are down. 😉
As you go out to play the game, please be mindful of your surroundings. Don’t travel onto private property, make safe choices, and never travel alone after dark or in dangerous areas.
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Hello, Kansas City! Half the summer has already flown by, can you believe it? And not only does that mean we need to get as many BBQs, ball games, and swimming pools in as we can — it also means moving season for a lot of us. Our Mom Squad Ambassador, Erin, recently went through a family move and has a few tips to share with you. Take a look…
My husband and I recently bought a new home for our family. We are finally settled after a few bumps in the road, along the way. We have two young children and the very thought of moving our family of four, from packing to moving day, was extremely overwhelming! So I thought I’d share some ideas that helped us make a smooth transition to our new home.
Sort through every room and find things you don’t need, don’t fit, toys your kids have outgrown and donate them. Many thrift stores are happy to accept your gently used stuff and it is tax deductible.
If you have time, organize everything specific to that room. I have a happy little toddler that likes to carry things from room to room. So if you happen to find the hairbrush in the dishwasher or the toilet wand in the living room, return those things to their proper spot before packing up.
Gather newspaper, black sharpies, and boxes. You’ll need more of those materials than you think you will.
Try your best to pack one room at a time. Leave only the essentials unpacked (Think paper products, bath needs, a few outfits).
Label the boxes for which room they belong to. Involve your kids in the process! After we were done packing my daughter’s room, I had her label every box with her name on it.
Pack a suitcase for every member of the family for the first few nights just like you would for a vacation. Include a favorite lovey or blanket for comforting your kids since they won’t be used to the new house yet.
If you have young children, I would recommend if at all possible to find a babysitter for the day. It can be a very stressful environment for all involved and you will probably get more done with the kids off to grandma’s house.
Involve the older ones in the process. Allow them to help put things on the truck and make sure they get rest breaks with water and snacks.
Plan to have a “campout” in the new house the first night. Everyone can sleep in the same room and get to know your new home.
Take time to say goodbye to the house you are leaving. I’m sure your family has had lots of wonderful memories of your current home and it is a bittersweet time, especially for children. It may be sad for them, but reassure them that it is okay to be sad. Remind them you will be creating some special memories in your new home as well.
Try to get the kids’ beds and rooms set up as soon as possible so they can get used to their new rooms. Having their things available soon will help them feel more comfortable with their new surroundings.
After you are all settled, introduce yourselves to your neighbors and if your kids are changing schools, drive by the new school. If the school is open, see if you can take a tour when you enroll. We drove by my daughter’s school and were pleasantly surprised to see swings! Her old school didn’t have that. So you may find some fun surprises by doing so.
Have you moved recently with your family? What things helped your family make an easier transition? Feel free to comment with your ideas!
I am so excited to share tonight’s blog post with each of you because it’s a topic that’s very near and dear to my own heart. About four years ago, when my daughter was still fairly little, we made the decision to get rid of the television in our living room and seriously cut back on the amount of technology we were using on a daily basis. We cut out cable, started making different choices with how to use our time, and have never looked back. We’re not an entirely tech free family (we still have internet and Netflix) but we’ve scaled back a lot compared to where we were just five years ago. Tonight, iFamilyKC Mom Squad blogger Stephanie shares her thoughts on scaling back on technology use in her life. I can’t wait to follow Stephanie and her family on their journey of cutting back on tech. Take a look…
Tech Free Family?!
I’ve been thinking lately about the amount of time I spend with technology – with computers, cell phone, and television. I must admit – I’m a bit embarrassed! I was talking with a coworker the other day about television shows I watch and as I was listing all my favorites (and trust me, it is quite a bit!) I realized I probably sound like I spend all of my free time watching TV!
This got me thinking about the amount of time I spend on the computer as well. Often times, I find myself on my computer WHILE watching TV. Now, don’t get me wrong, I honestly need my computer to do homework, e-mail, connect with work, etc. What I don’t need to do is constantly check Facebook or spend countless hours on Pinterest finding things I’ll never cook/make/do!
Finally, I can’t forget about my cell phone. If you ask my close friends and family, you will know I’m addicted to this silly game and I’m constantly playing it or waiting for my lives to recharge! Just typing all this stuff makes me cringe! I seriously need an intervention.
This week is finals week for my Master’s program and I’ve already determined I’ll be spending every spare minute working on the various online projects, online discussions, etc. I’ve decided I will be cutting WAY back on my technology usage after this week– for not just myself, but everyone around me. I know I have a technology problem and the only person who can fix it is me!
I can only imagine how much I’m missing because I’ve constantly got my face in front of one screen or another. I plan to spend this extra time with my family, friends, and creating fun ideas for summer (which is coming up WAY too fast!) I can’t wait to share with you all about my ideas I come up with! For those of you who are shaking your heads and thinking “omg, this is so me!” I hope you’ll consider making this change with me and see what positive changes you can make by limiting your technology usage and becoming a more tech free family.
I ran across one of those quotes a few years ago, the kind that just sticks with you. It was next to the image of a woman and her daughter and said, “Normal?! Don’t worry, honey, that’s just a setting on the dryer.” If there’s one thing I’ve discovered over the last several years, especially since becoming a parent myself, it’s that families come in all different sizes and structures and it’s okay to be the “non-traditional family”. This morning, here on the blog, one of our iFamilyKC Mom Squad team members, Stephanie, is sharing her family’s journey with us. Take a look…
It’s Okay To Be The Non-Traditional Family
This week’s blog post topic is more personal in nature but it something I want to share with you all in case it’s something you have thought about! I think in order to fully understand everything I need to start at the beginning.
My husband and I met in college and have been together ever since. We’ve always agreed that we both wanted a big family with lots of kids but had never really sat down and thought about the specifics…you know, the expensive childcare, numerous activities the kids would be involved in, the list goes on and on.
My husband has always worked for a company that has offered great insurance/benefits but would work very long hours. I can’t tell you how many family activities, soccer games, etc. that he has missed because of his crazy work schedule. However, because of his work schedule, I’ve always been able to do what I wanted! I’ve done the whole stay at home mom bit. I’ve worked part time so I could be home with the kids more, and I’ve been a full time student – all because of his hard work and dedication.
Now that I’ve gotten into a career that allows me to properly provide for my family, we finally had the talk about making some major family changes. For those who don’t know, I’m a registered nurse and I work night shifts. Working long 12+ hour nights and racing home to relieve the babysitter from our 4 children (all under the age of 6) is exhausting! There were many days I would come home exhausted from work only to get a couple hours of sleep just to wake up and take care of the kids all day and return to work that night to take care of very sick patients. Needless to say, no one was getting me at 100% and I wasn’t happy.
When I first started nursing school a few years ago, we decided my husband would be a stay at home dad once I became a nurse. Well, during my time in nursing school and our family living on one income, we racked up some debt and we just couldn’t afford to have a stay at home parent. Now that it’s been a few years and we’ve worked really hard to pay off debt, we’re finally in a place where we can go back to our original plan of having my husband be a stay at home dad.
When people ask what my husband does and I say he is a stay at home dad, I’ll admit I get “the look” and the “you don’t think that will actually last, do you?” Yes, yes I do! We’ve worked really hard to make this happen and we couldn’t be happier! We’ve had to make some changes with the way we save and spend money, but these changes have made our family much happier!
Don’t get me wrong, there are some drawbacks – some we knew would happen and others we didn’t anticipate. The major issue we had to work with was that we would no longer be covered by his insurance. We’ve had to research different insurance companies and find an alternative to employer-provided insurance. We’ve also had to cut back on our eating out. We still go out and have fun, just not as often. A personal issue is that I struggle with wanting to stay awake to spend time with just my husband while the kids are at school/day care when I know I should be sleeping to prepare for my night shifts. These things will take time to get used to but it’s nothing we can’t handle!
What I’m getting at is that every family is different. What works for one family may not work for another – and that’s ok!! I’ve learned there is no such thing as “normal” anymore. Growing up, I thought everyone had happy, mom-dad, two parent homes where both parents worked 9-5 jobs. While that may work for some families… that would not work for us at all!! So, if you’ve been thinking about making some major family changes, I recommend doing some research about the pros and cons of the change as well as having a serious heart-to-heart with your family. Being honest has been the only way we’ve gotten through this change and it will continue to be the best way to ensure my family is happy and everything is working how it should.
Spring is coming (it seems like springtime weather might already be here) and, if you’re anything like me, you’ve got Spring cleaning on the brain already. With the approaching warmer weather, our team has been thinking about ways that we can control the clutter and tonight I’m excited to share iFamilyKC Mom Squad blogger Erin’s tips on organizing the chaos with you. Take a look…
Get me out from under the rubble!
Lately I’ve been working on organizing and decluttering my house! It is such a great feeling to know that everything will soon have a place in my home. I’ve found a lot of helpful tips and methods that are really working for my family! I thought I might share with you some ideas I’ve found to get you going in different areas of your own house.
Bathroom: This one focuses specifically on the bath toys. My kids toys were spread out all over the counters and floor. The rubber ducks must’ve invited some of their friends to the pond, because before I knew it, they were EVERYWHERE!! So I found a really easy way to organize the toys and the kids are even motivated to pick them up after bath time! Whoa! Now I’ve got you’re attention, huh? Thankfully, my husband is very handy and with his help, we got to work! Four dollar store bins, 8 zip ties, and a shower curtain rod is all it took to get our toys beautifully organized. Take a look for yourself!
Kitchen: The thought of organizing and decluttering my kitchen frightened me, I have to admit. Once I got in there and started on the junk drawer, the other drawers were easy and I was on a roll! I think every kitchen should have a catchall junk drawer BUT there is a great way to keep it nice and tidy! First, I took everything out of my junk drawer. What I found was I didn’t NEED half the stuff in it and it was trash! Old owners manuals (why keep these at all when they are online?), expired coupons, shopping lists with no magnetic backs (what is the point of those?). After happily trashing all of that, I found different sized Tupperware bowls that had sadly lost their lids and I began to sort everything into those bowls. The finished product is fantastic! No more rummaging through the drawer while owners manuals and coupons that expired in 1985 come flying out at me like Doc in his DeLorean! One more side note I’d like to add: if you have more than one set of measure spoons or cups, you do not need them (get rid of them!)
School work organization: This last thing is a work in progress of mine that is definitely weighing a lot on my mind! Every day, my kindergartner comes home with beautiful artwork, school papers and flyers. I cherish these so much and have a hard time parting with any of it. A mountain of papers is starting to form on my dining room table that needs to be tackled ASAP! I’ve come up with a system that just might work for me and maybe you too.
Go through the backpack each night and sort the papers: artwork, schoolwork, and flyers. Log the information from the flyers into your phone or wall calendar and THROW the paper away! Easy!
Get some sort of a bin with hanging folders and label them (maybe by quarter?). After displaying your future Monet’s pieces for a while, file them away along with any other worksheets or papers you decide on.
Another idea I LOVE is to take a picture of the different artwork you are most proud of and create a photo book online. Shutterfly often has a free 8×8 photo book promo code. It is great way to preserve their precious masterpieces by creating a condensed album that can be shared in the future.
These are just a few random ideas for areas of your house that may need some attention. I feel so much better after clearing out things we don’t need and giving us a little room to breathe! I’d like to hear what other ideas you’ve come up with in your own house to help your family stay a little more organized and out from under the rubble.
From iFamily to Yours,
Erin Booth, mother of 2 little ones and 1 big. Grandma to another little one.
(1 year old son, 6 year old daughter, 20 year old stepson, and 9 month old grandbaby girl)
We’re happy to share another GREAT post with you tonight on the iFamilyKC blog. This one was written by one of our newer Mom Squad team members, Erin, who also blogs over at A Day In The Life Of A Mommy Of 3. In this post, Erin talks about a topic I remember all too well: baby proofing. We’d love to hear YOUR adventures in baby proofing your own home in the comments below and on Facebook.
Baby proofing for Dummies
Who’s the dummy now?
Yay! My son has passed another milestone: crawling! Exciting, right?? Well, yes, for about a day. Of course, when it happened, everyone HAD to know! Pictures, texts, Facebook posts all documenting the joyful occasion! He’s mobile! Yes, and so am I now, more than ever! I sit down for a mere moment and immediately jump up like I sat on a tack, shouting, “NO, Don’t eat that!” or “That is dangerous! You’re gonna bonk your noggin on that!” And he is army crawling. Oh, you’re thinking, “He is only army crawling. He can’t be that fast!” Ha! If that baby gate is down, he is off to the races and goes in to some sort of baby stealth mode. I turn around and there’s the little dude just staring at me innocently. Sometimes, though, the only thing that clues me in that he is on the move is his ornery little giggle. I know at that point that he has his eye on something and he will stop at nothing to get his chubby little fists around it! I don’t remember my daughter ever being SO curious and into EVERYTHING! But, I only recently had the chance to become a stay at home mom, so maybe I just didn’t experience it as much with her. Or maybe it’s a boy thing.
So, needless to say, baby proofing has been on my mind. Couldn’t we just put the baby in one of those giant inflatable balls like theyhave at carnivals? No, that would be wrong. He could go bounding down the steps like an out of control hamster ball! In my opinion, I always thought there was a ridiculous amount of safety items in the baby store aisles. I’m beginning to rethink my stance on that. So far, we have installed baby gates and tied up some of the cabinets with socks (hey it’s worked so far!). I’m guessing he wants to be the next Spiderman since he is practicing scaling my dresser drawers (straps that screw into the wall – check!). Or maybe he is wanting to learn a trade. An electrician comes to mind (outlet covers – check!)
So, about those “ridiculous safety items.” I’m thinking I might just need to get some of those items ASAP before my son decides to start the next exciting (and dreaded) milestone: walking.
Who’s the caged animal here?
What are you doing to babyproof your house for your little ones? Feel free to comment your own experiences!
Erin Booth, mother of 2 little ones and 1 big. Grandma to another little one. (7 month old son, 5 year old daughter, 20 year old stepson, and 4 month old grandbaby girl). You can follow Erin’s NEW blog over at A Day In The Life Of A Mommy Of 3
Like most of you (hopefully – unless I’m seriously dating myself), I remember when Labor Day meant back to school. In honor of that, we thought it would be fun to share a post from one of our NEWEST iFamilyKC Mom Squad Ambassadors today. In addition to being an online contributor for us, Erin B. also blogs over at Day In The Life Of A Mommy Of 3. Please join me in extending a warm welcome to Erin, we’re glad to have you on board!
Back to school: Back to chaos?
Good evening everyone!
So the kids are back in school and Fall is upon us! Whoosh! Get ready for a whirlwind of homework, activities and schedules! It’s that time of year where mornings can be quite CRAZY and out of control! I sent my daughter to Kindergarten two weeks ago. (yes, tears were shed and not by her!) But, that is another whole topic in itself!
In these last two weeks, I have learned that being organized and ready for the next day helps us tremendously! It can be a tad chaotic in my home in the mornings- my 5 year old complaining about the “black things on her egg” (that is pepper, my dear), the baby trying to feed himself peas and creating a new hairstyle with them and my husband snoring right through all of this. You might just give these things below a go and see what works for your family!
Lay out everyone’s clothes the night before (even your own). Down to the underwear, hair bows, belts, socks and shoes. This helps if you have to leave dad in charge in the morning (cause we all know what the kids look like if dad dresses them!) If your kid is in sports or other activities, have the gear packed in a bag in the car.
Get yourself up earlier and get ready before your kids! I’m not saying get up before the rooster crows. Don’t get me wrong, I used to think it was a sport to see just how long I could hit the snooze button. But, it is far easier to herd the kiddos when you aren’t rushing around getting yourself ready. And you might even have a small moment to yourself to sip your coffee and read the latest Facebook newsfeed.
Sit down with your kids and read the lunch menu monthly. Mark which days the cafeteria is serving that “mystery slop.” In other words, your child might want to bring a lunch that day.
Pack lunches the night before. You could even freeze different types of sandwiches and pull them out of the freezer to pack. Cut up veggies and fruit every few days and what you don’t use for lunches, they can have for an after school snack.
Use some sort of calendar and reminder system to keep track of your family’s happenings. Because if you’re like me, my brain turns to mush after a certain point in the day (kinda like that mystery slop they served in the cafeteria).
Sensing a pattern here? Planning ahead the night before for the next day’s events is key to maintaining your sanity! Having a plan allows you to save time in the morning therefore creating a stress free morning with your family, It sets a positive outlook for the day and allows for more family time!
Side notes: If you’re thinking all this sounds impossible, try it a week and see how it goes. So far, it is working for us. I wrote this post in between chasing my 7 month old around the living room, trying to convince him that the bookcase is not Mt. Everest and pleading for my 5 year old to pick up the mountain of toys! Everyone is in bed, lunches packed, clothes ready and my sanity is intact.
Erin Booth, mother of 2 little ones and 1 big. Grandma to another little one. (7 month old son, 5 year old daughter, 20 year old stepson, and 4 month old grandbaby girl). Erin is starting her VERY OWN blog at: Day In The Life of a Mommy of 3